I love weddings. Whether I am just attending or officiating, it is always a special time. Recently a wedding got me to thinking about how to make marriages better. One of the best things couples can do to help their marriage is have intimate conversations.

These are simple questions to start a conversation for couples. They range from very simple and fun to romantic and/or deep.  Have fun getting to know one another.

What is the silliest fight we’ve every had?

What do you think was the most romantic moment we have ever had?

What would you do if you won $5 million?

What is one of the reasons you said yes to our first date?

What is your favorite all-time cartoon character?

What’s the best movie you’ve seen lately?

If you could take one room in our home and do anything with it, what would you do?

What are four or five things which attracted you to me?

What is one of the most funny or embarrassing things that has happened to us – maybe we laughed later?

Tell me a time when you really felt close to me. What made you feel that way?

If walls could talk, what would ours say?

If you could keep just one memory of some past event or period of time, what would it be?

If we had two days alone together, what would be your idea of how we could best spend the time? Why?

What do I do that makes you feel really loved?

What friend has most influenced your life, and how?

If you had just six more months to live, how would you spend them? What would you do? Where would you want to go?

What place in the world would you most like to visit?

What were your favorite TV shows growing up?

Did your friends have any weird parents or family members?

You get to have one superpower. Which would pick and why?

Which decade would you time travel back to?

Have you ever lost touch with a good friend? How?

Describe your first job?

Who was your childhood best friend?

What did you spend most of your time doing as a little kid? A teenager?

How did you get your first car?

Show me one scar on your body and tell me how you got it.

What was your first girl/boy friend like?

Describe a time where you made your parent(s) REALLY mad at you.

What are you most proud of today?

What are you least proud of?

What did you want to be when you were little as far as a career?

What are your top favorite songs? Movies? Actors? Actresses? Artists? Authors? Why?

What crazy superstition or belief did you have when you were young?

Share one of your own.